Here is your solution to failed resolutions - I got you, girl!
Published 2 months ago • 3 min read
Dear Reader,
It's about that time of year! Most of us have failed in our resolutions from Jan. 1.
In my recent The Swipe Right Effect podcast episode, in my conversation with Lou Redmond, we delved into the simplicity of establishing routines. While our initial focus was on incorporating meditation into daily habits, our discussion expanded to the broader realm of habit formation.
Habits have significant power in fostering positive transformations. Do you find it challenging to adopt new habits or break free from old ones? (Exciting news awaits you at the end of this email!)
By taking small steps, one at a time, you can greatly enhance your chances of success and I stand ready to help you! Specifically, habit stacking involves intertwining a series of small actions into your daily or weekly routine.
According to the 21/90 rule, it takes 21 days to form a habit and 90 days to solidify it as a permanent part of your lifestyle. But why does it sometimes feel like such a struggle? That's where the secret ingredient comes in. Here's what Lou said about simple habits and having an accountability partner:
According to a study published in the European Journal of Social Psychology, habits typically take around 66 days to form. Interestingly, the researchers found that missing the behavior once didn't significantly hinder habit formation if participants resumed quickly afterward.
This is where accountability becomes crucial. If you falter for a day and are answerable to someone, you're more likely to get back on track. Conversely, if your lapses go unnoticed, you may find it easier to succumb to self-criticism and let the habit slip away.
Through my own coaching program, I have an accountability partner and we talk for 5 minutes every morning at 8:15 a.m. and we share our top five tasks for the day. As I'm working to launch a new program and an April retreat, it is crucial that I stay focused!
When you set a date, write it down and then TELL someone, you are 95% more likely to have the positive outcome you desire..
Here are some cool stats from the American Society of Training & Development study:
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Today, I'm thrilled to unveil a groundbreaking program called Momentum Revolution, designed to empower women to cultivate revolutionary new routines that complement their existing lives. Through this eight-week program, we'll collaborate to craft routines that infuse joy into your days, focusing on the pillars of Heart, Mind, Body, Soul, and Relationships.
Habits are a powerful way to create positive change in your life. The challenge is adding new habits and breaking bad habits. We'll be using a system of habit stacking in this program and Lou had some thoughts on this in our podcast.
This program is designed to provide 1:1 coaching and small group accountability. If you want to see a few more details, then check out my web page for the program.
We are beginning our first cohort of 5 women right away, and only 3 spots are still available. Because this is our inaugural cohort, special pricing is available!
The quickest way to get started is to book a call with me!
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